Homework: A Parent’s Guide To Helping Out Without Freaking Out!

Homework: A Parent's Guide to Helping Out Without Freaking Out! is a must-read for parents who struggle with the nightly battle of getting their kids to complete schoolwork. From the moment your kids begin kindergarten, the homework cycle begins and every year it grows more intense. Neil McNerney, a licensed counsellor and parenting expert, offers a refreshing perspective on homework, shifting the focus from control and nagging to guidance and support.

Neil McNerney’s approach helps parents foster independence in their children while maintaining a calm, cooperative household. The idea is to become a “consultant” rather than a “boss” when it comes to homework. Instead of micromanaging or fighting battles over assignments, McNerney encourages parents to empower their children to take ownership of their work.

Through real-life examples and step-by-step strategies, the author provides parents with practical ways to motivate kids without creating unnecessary stress or resentment.

McNerney also acknowledges that not all children are the same, and his techniques are adaptable to different personalities and learning styles. Whether your child is naturally self-motivated or prone to procrastination, his guidance helps parents navigate the challenges in a way that strengthens, not damages, the parent-child relationship. The emphasis on communication and emotional intelligence ensures that kids develop essential problem-solving skills that extend beyond homework.

By applying McNerney’s insights, parents can help their children build responsibility, confidence, and resilience—without the nightly stress and frustration.